Dear Self Care

Our shared space

Community Guidelines

Last updated November 2026

Dear Self Care is a soft, judgment-free space for healing and reflection. These guidelines help keep it that way for everyone.

Be kind

  • Treat other members and Sharnell with respect and compassion.
  • Assume good intent. Ask questions gently.
  • No harassment, hate speech, threats, or personal attacks.

Keep it safe

  • No sexually explicit, violent, or graphic content.
  • No sharing of other people's private information.
  • No promotion of self-harm, disordered eating, or dangerous behaviors.

Respect the purpose

  • Do not use Dear Self Care for advertising, spam, or unsolicited solicitation.
  • Do not use the platform to provide medical or clinical care to other members.
  • Do not attempt to impersonate Sharnell, moderators, or other members.

Reporting & enforcement

If you see content that breaks these guidelines, email hello@dearselfcare.com. We may remove content, suspend, or permanently remove accounts that violate these guidelines.