Dear Self Care

A soft pause

Pause with Sage

Guided breathing, grounding, and gentle support — for whatever this moment is asking of you.

A gentle note

Dear Self Care is intended to support personal wellness and self-care. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or mental health care. If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency, call or text 988 (US Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or contact your local emergency services immediately.

Choose a mode

SOS calm support

5-4-3-2-1 grounding

  • Name 5 things you can see

    Look slowly around you. Name five things — colors, shapes, textures. Out loud or in your head, gently.

  • Name 4 things you can touch

    Notice the temperature of your hands, the fabric on your skin, the floor beneath you.

  • Name 3 things you can hear

    Listen for the closest sound, then a further one, then the quietest.

  • Name 2 things you can smell

    Even the air counts. Inhale slowly and notice.

  • Name 1 thing you can taste

    Tea, water, your own breath. Just one thing.

Gentle affirmations

Words from Sage

  • I am allowed to take up space.
  • This feeling is moving through me, not staying.
  • I am safe in my own body.
  • I am doing the best I can with what I have.
  • Softness is also strength.