a softer place to healA soft pause
Pause with Sage
Guided breathing, grounding, and gentle support — for whatever this moment is asking of you.
A gentle note
Dear Self Care is intended to support personal wellness and self-care. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or mental health care. If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency, call or text 988 (US Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or contact your local emergency services immediately.
Choose a mode
SOS calm support
5-4-3-2-1 grounding
Name 5 things you can see
Look slowly around you. Name five things — colors, shapes, textures. Out loud or in your head, gently.
Name 4 things you can touch
Notice the temperature of your hands, the fabric on your skin, the floor beneath you.
Name 3 things you can hear
Listen for the closest sound, then a further one, then the quietest.
Name 2 things you can smell
Even the air counts. Inhale slowly and notice.
Name 1 thing you can taste
Tea, water, your own breath. Just one thing.
Gentle affirmations
Words from Sage
- “I am allowed to take up space.”
- “This feeling is moving through me, not staying.”
- “I am safe in my own body.”
- “I am doing the best I can with what I have.”
- “Softness is also strength.”